What is self-trust?

When I first start working with a new client, more than one tends to comment that they don’t really trust their own judgement because they have made so many poor choices in the past. These comments got me thinking:  What does it really means to trust? These clients have got […] Read more »

What does it mean to trust?

I’ve come across some clients who comment that they don’t really trust their own judgement because they have made so many poor choices in the past. These comments got me thinking about what it really means to trust. My first reaction is that these clients have got one thing right, […] Read more »

What is self-confidence?

I’ve always been fascinated by people who are clearly self-confident.  How do you know when you meet a genuinely confident person?  What do you believe they’re like when no-one is looking?  I’ve come across a number of beliefs – or perhaps I should say ‘myths’ – that people hold about […] Read more »

Setbacks: catastrophes or opportunities?

When things go wrong most people’s reaction is frustration and disappointment.  That’s understandable. However, setbacks, disappointments and failures have a useful role to play in our personal growth and development. I had an exploratory meeting with a client once and I asked him, “what do you do when you have […] Read more »